I have never had a serious relationship is there something wrong with me? This is a question that many people ask themselves. If you are in this situation, I would like you to know that firstly you are not alone and secondly there is nothing wrong with you. Many girls feel that the fault lies with them; however this is not the case. Trust me ladies if a guy has never has a serious relationship he feels exactly the same as you females do.
There are many reasons why you may not have had a serious relationship and I am going to tell you why it can actually be a good thing.
I have had never had a serious relationship could this be a good thing?
The truth is that although it may not be popular on social media or among your friends, the truth is that never having a serious relationship can actually have benefits that you do not even realize. When you stop focusing on the negative you may actually start to appreciate the positive. There really is a flip side of never having had a serious relationship that most people forget to acknowledge. I am here today to share with you some of the benefits that actually exist.
You may appear more attractive
Trust me when I tell you that you may appear more desirable and appealing to guys. There are many guys out there who may love the idea that you have never met the right guy to become serious with. There are many guys who would love to be the one who captures your heart.
You have the power to make someone feel really special
Imagine when you do find the right guy, how special you will be able to make him feel. There are not many girls in today’s day and age, which have not had a serious relationship. He will really feel special and chosen by you. The right guy is really going to appreciate you more than you will ever know.
The right guy will respect you
Many girls are too easy and this is not appealing for a guy in terms of a long term relationship. If you let him know that you have been waiting for the right guy and that you were not prepared to settle for anything less, then he will really respect you. You have the opportunity to be fully respected and cared for by the right guy, many girls never have this opportunity.
If you have had many past relationships, the chances are that you will have more baggage. More baggage and more exes can seriously ruin the chances of a long term relationship working out. The factor that you have never had a serious relationship in the past, gives you that much more chances of your relationship surviving for many years to come.
You could land yourself a serious gentleman
There is nothing wrong with a decent old fashioned guy with old school morals and values. In fact if the truth is told most girls get sick of “bad boys” and long for a real gentleman. You will be surprised at how many gentlemen are waiting for the right women. You may just be the perfect lady for a true gentleman.
You may save yourself a world of heart ache
Even though it may seem “cool” on the surface, the truth is that break ups are very “uncool” For every single serious relationship there needs to be an ending. The longer you have been together with someone the harder the break up may be, by never having had a serious relationship; you will have avoided all the heart ache and chaos that goes along with it.
There is more opportunity to explore the type of guys that you like
There really is nothing wrong with getting to know guys as friends first. If you have never had a serious relationship then this means you have been single for longer. When you are single you have more time than ever to explore the type of guys that you want to have in your life. You can have multiple guys as friends and you can discover what you really want.
Regardless of your reasons for never having had a serious relationship, I would like to assure you that the wait is totally worth it. When you meet the man of your dreams, nothing else is going to matter. Although it may feel like a big deal right now, I can promise that in a few years’ time you will be happy that you waited for the right guy to come along. After reading this hopefully you will realize that I have never had a serious relationship, may not be such a bad thing after all.