Do you keep thinking, “I want a guy to love me“? Are you mentally obsessed with finding someone who is totally mad about you? Are you sick and tired of never being the one guys fall in love with? If you answered “yes” to these questions, then you can breathe a big sigh of relief, as you have come to the right place.
Let me tell you a little secret which is that, guys have these same thoughts too, about girls. They also want to be number one in a girl’s life and they also long for a girl to really love them. I want to take some time today to share with you some real insight from a guy’s perspective on this topic.
Some useful tips when you think “I want a guy to love me”.
Rather wait for the right guy
I know that this is the last thing that you are going to want to hear you. After all you are more than likely already impatient, but I would like to urge you to have some patience. Instead of wanting any guy to love you, rather consider wanting the right guy to love you. The truth is that if you rushing into a relationship with the wrong guy it can actually cause more harm than good. Many girls lose trust in guys because of the wrong guy and then when the right guy comes along they are totally shut off to love and mistrusting and they lose the opportunity. Rather wait for the right guy to come along, even if you have to wait longer.
Don’t let your friends pressure you
It is very common to feel pressured from your friends. If all of your friends are in couples and you are one of the only single people left, you may feel pressured. It is important to remember that everyone is a unique individual. People grow and develop in different ways and at different times. We are not all clones of each other and it is better to be a unique individual. The right guy will love you for all your unique attributes. Do not allow your friends to pressure you into jumping into the wrong relationship.
It all balances out in the end
I can promise you that there really is “someone for everyone”. Your perfect guy is out there somewhere. Even though it may not be happening right now, I can promise you that it is going to happen for you. Not all the couples that you know right now will be together in a couple of years’ time. People do break up and things do change, but in the end it all works out. If you are not where you want to be right now in terms of a relationship, I can promise you that things do change and they will change for you too.
Do you know the saying “be careful what you wish for”, well this really applies to you right now. Many girls keep hoping for a guy to love them but their wishes don’t turn out exactly the way that they want them to. Imagine a guy falling in love with you who you are totally not attracted to. This would be horrible and you would have to hurt his feelings and let him down. Rather wish for a guy to love you that you love back. Instead of wanting a guy to love you for the sake of being loved and fitting in with your friends, rather wish for the right things at the right times.
It is important that a guy loves you for you
If you are like many other girls that I know, you more than likely dream about a hot guy falling in love with you. While it may be great for a while having a sexy guy totally in love with you, the novelty will soon wear off. A more realistic view is to be in a relationship with the right guy who loves you for you and only you. Many guys enjoy the idea of having a girlfriend for the sake of having a girlfriend. Trust me when I tell you that you will be better off waiting a bit longer for a genuine guy who loves you for who you are, with all your flaws and imperfections.
The best advice that I have for you today is instead of wanting a guy to love you, rather change your thoughts to wanting the right guy to love you and you may be surprised what the universe delivers.