Asking how to get your husband back can be a difficult question to answer as each relationship is unique, however we have covered a broad range of suggestions for you below. There are a number of different factors which go into how to approach the situation and there’s always the question of if you should even try to get him back.
This may not be something some will want to think about, but if you feel that you are on the borderline of stalking your ex-husband then you should not follow through on these urges to contact him. Sometimes the best approach is to give him some space.. and simply show him what he is missing out on.
However, there are ways to approach the difficult situation
Try Opening A Line Of Communication
The most important step in learning how to get your husband back is opening a proper line of communication, especially if you two are not on the best of terms. If you are legally separated, or divorced then this will take some effort. Whether you and your estranged significant other are on speaking terms or not, you need to be the one to make the first move.
If you approach him in a respectful manner, while not waiting for him to come to you it will make him more likely to be open to broadening his relationship with you again. You need to think about your approach here. What communication ‘level’ are you going to try and start? Perhaps text is enough to open a conversation. Focus on topics that are “neutral” and don’t incite emotions. But something that he is interested in. From there you can expand the topics.
This tip is extremely helpful if he felt that you had been immature in your relationship previously. Meaning, you shouldn’t rush into things, but begin with short conversations which could possibly lead to possibly meeting up with him in the near future.
Depending on how bad the original break up was, this process could take several months to build up trust within the relationship. Again, don’t try to rush into anything as it could cause him pause and remember the rough patches you two went through in the past.
Remind Him Why He Married You
There was obviously something that attracted him to you in the first place., right? He did marry you after all, which in almost every case is a rather big step to take in a relationship. If you want him to win your husband that, all you have to do is remind of why he fell in love with you.
Sounds easy right?
No, it actually could be an extremely difficult process which could take a lot of time. However, subtly do things that you know he likes and enjoys. If these characteristics about you begin entering his self-conscious, then he may start desiring you again. What characteristics does he value in his woman? Make these characteristics more prominent.
It’s definitely something you should use to your advantage, especially if the two of you continue to be on speaking terms.
If he likes a specific dress on you, wear it, it will definitely grab his attention.
No matter your exact approach or how well you executed them, you will have to be patient. You aren’t going to win your husband back over night…I don’t care what you do…even if it’s that trick of yours’ he used to love…
You will have to be patient and allow the circumstances to develop naturally. Men are emotional beings as well; he will need to process the thought of having you back in his life as a partner.
So, if you really want to win back your husband, give him time and make sure to not crowd him if he needs some space from you at various times during the process.
Trust me; you will be better off for it if you take this advice to heart.
What Do You Think?
Have you been able to win back your husband? Do you think it’s worth the effort win an ex back? How would you try to win back an ex? Share your thoughts in the comment section below!